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How
I "Really"
Learned about Learning ... Difficulties
You are
on the Learning Difficulties
pages of my website. It is here where I will be talking about a very
special approach to learning difficulties and learning disabilities. it
is called the 'Davis method' and it is very dear to my heart. You see,
many years ago I learned most of what I know about learning - and not
learning - from Ron Davis and my daughter. So I'd like to share that
short story with you. (Jessica, my daughter has given permission to
tell you this story.)
I had been a
professional
trainer and coach for many years dealing with
accelerated learning and information strategies, as well as stress
management. I was successful at it, too. But at the same
time, Jessica had reached the 4th grade and was a complete
non-reader! The community where I lived seemed to be unable to offer
any real solution at all. Diagnosis: “Low tolerance for
frustration”. By the time I trooped my daughter down to the
school-appointed psychologist for that testing, I had already tried all
the tricks in my bag but without much success. (I
realized that
mothers should NOT be coaches to their children, they should simply be
mothers- and all mothers intuitively know that!)
Determined to find a solution for Jessica, I searched the Web - just as
you are doing now - for a method that would work quickly during the
summer break. She was after all about to enter 5th grade as a complete
non-reader! In the Swiss school system that is a crucial time for all
children: it is when a child has to decide in which track to continue
in school - the academic one leading to university or a
technical/vocational school. All that mattered to me was getting my
daughter to read.
To my mind Jessica needed A LOT of remediation, and these things would
take A LOT of time. Indeed, I
was very skeptical that a dyslexia treatment would help in such a short
time (one week?!) I remember having several telephone
conversations with Alice (wife of Ron Davis). I remember her being
very, very patient with me. One part of me said this can’t
work in just a week. But some other part of me kept saying Yes,
it’s the right way. Eventually I took the leap of faith and
Jessica and I were off to Burlingame, California, home of the
Davis’.
Jessica agreed to make the journey and do the program with Ron and
Fatima.
It was bumpy going at first. Jessica wasn’t used to
structured time. And I recall I kept asking Ron from the third day into
the program: “Shouldn’t we plan on staying an extra
week? We have time, really, no problem.” He would look at me
with those kind and loving eyes and say it would all be fine. And to my
great surprise, we did not need to stay longer. One week was enough
time.
You see,
my simple
goal for entering this program with my daughter was to help her
increase her reading level. However, the program
accomplished so much more. As I observed my daughter’s
behaviors during and after the program, astounding and important
changes happened – changes that reached well beyond her
remarkable gains in her reading skills.
- She became more cheerful, more
buoyant.
- She began to like herself
more and more.
- And I
believe she felt proud
of her accomplishments for the first time in a
very long time.
Over the ensuing months, I watched her grow
even more.
- She was able
to relate better to her
schoolmates.
- She was invited out more often
than before.
- She began taking responsibility for
getting things ready for school.
- Her assignments were accomplished in
a fraction of the time it would
take earlier.
- She was,
well, just a happier girl
all around.
I had received a gift so very much larger than what I had set out
wanting. It became clear to me that the
Davis method had so much more to offer than mere reading improvement.
Davis teaches the very most basic lessons we ALL need to help us
navigate in this stressed out and chaotic world we are living in.
In a loving
and playful way it installs strategies for competent living and tools
for life-long learning - all within 5-10 short days! In a nutshell,
these strategies are:
- how to
quickly recover from stress
- how to clear
up the mental fog and regain mental focus in times of confusion
- how to
manage your energy throughout the day
- how to
settle for nothing less than thorough and clear understanding of a
word, a sentence, a concept or symbol
- ... and much
more.
I am sharing my story here, because this
very personal experience with the
Davis method convinced me of the effective and lasting benefits it will
bring to anyone who embraces it.
Davis promises robust solutions to tough learning problems. It is those
promises and the proven results which led me to learning this method
and becoming licensed as a Davis Dyslexia Correction® Facilitator, Davis Supervisor-Specialist and Davis Advanced Workshop Presenter. I
continue to love doing programs with spunky children, and teens and
struggling adult clients!
Welcome to my website! I invite you to explore the Davis Programs in
more detail and hope they capture your imagination as they did mine.

Bonny
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Professional
services described as Davis®, Davis Dyslexia
Correction®, Davis
Symbol Mastery®, Davis Orientation Counseling®, and
Davis Math
Mastery® may only be provided by persons who are employed by a
licensed Davis Specialist, or who are trained and licensed as Davis
Facilitators by Davis Dyslexia Association
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